To my godson André
by Rhoderiezl, now a godmother of two

My godson André,

When you read this, you should be old enough to understand my message through your own experiences, while your mum and I should be young enough to still be able to relate with the trends of young adulthood. I myself was, am, and will be young no matter what. My youth transcends time and space. Haha.

This is about you, though, and how wonderful your life has been so far. I am happy for you and your accomplishments. Cherish your childhood and the simple things in life, such as walking barefoot on the sand, eating ice cream, and singing in the shower. Look forward to the future, for ‘the future holds the most to those who have faith in it.*’

I am writing to the man that you have become, even before I have met the child that you are to be, very soon. Your mother and I can only hope that we provided wisdom and guidance enough for you to get out of the nest on your own. Each teaching is like a feather carefully placed on both your wings. We have allowed you to make mistakes so that you can fly higher. Remember that you are unlimited.

When I first heard of your existence, I was genuinely happily surprised. Your mum and I were supposed to visit China together, but then you showed up, which means all three of us will have to go someday, if we haven’t already. Your other IV-5 aunts were supportive and excited, too–imagine the hype! Every pregnancy has a story, and your mother’s was difficult, especially emotionally. We are, however, thankful for the hardships because they build strength. I always meditated for your wellbeing, and you made my coming back home to the Philippines after a long two and a half years extra special.

You are now in search of your essence, and this search is scary, exciting, bewildering–the path is is not easy, and it shouldn’t be! Travel, learn, love, relentlessly search for the truth. Whatever you decide to do, I am always with you, mistakes and all. Especially the mistakes. I love you very much.

Love yor mother and treat her well. Tell the truth. ‘Let your light shine and be a blessing.**’ Live in peace. Love your country, and always give more than you take.

Whatever we had in our past lives, I am glad to have you again in this one.

With much love,
Ninang (Godmother) Rhoderiezl

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*From Sensei W. Platt, my sensei’s sensei. Other similar quotations exist.
**From Mother Marie Louise de Meester, founder of ICM in the Philippines.
I shall give a handwritten version of this letter to André when he comes of age.